I masturbate by cupping my labia with my hand, pressing reasonably hard, and rubbing my clitoris with my thumb. I lie on my side with my knees drawn about half way up and my legs closed. When I get very tingly and about to cum, I slow the rubbing with my thumb and increase the pressure slightly. I try to relax all over because my orgasm stops when I start twitching and thrusting my pelvis, so I try to delay that as long as possible. My orgasm slowly builds up and slowly starts and if things go just right it seems to last forever. Then I can't help it, I thrust and that's the end of the orgasm. I then insert my two middle fingers for the afterglow and go to sleep. I masturbate almost every night.I am also a quiet masturbator. Does anyone ese masturbate the way I do? I masturbate this way because I shared my bedroom with my mother one summer at a rented cottage when I was 15 and just starting to masturbate, and I did it every night that I could. We usually went to bed at the same time so I didn't know if she was asleep or not. I would say good night, roll over on my side, hold and finger myself until I got wet, and then I would masturbate. When I was 19 we talked about sex and things, and she told me she still masturbates about once a week, and a couple of times a week that summer because dad was in the city. She also told me that they would make sure I was asleep before they made love, and that it was mutual masturbation the full summer because her bed creaked. I never knew so I was truly asleep. I told her I also masturbated but I couldn't tell her about that summer. I told her I started in college and it was a very good substitute for intercourse. She agreed.I'm still a virgin, although I have been masturbated by my boy friend a couple of times and I have jerked him off a couple of times. It was quite something when I first saw him ejaculate. I'm now 20 years old. I read a story on this page of a brother and sister having unprotected sex together with the result the girl got pregnant. That must be down right stupid..... Ok it does happen in families where fathers make love to daughters, some mothers may do so with son's but certainly it is not unheard of for brother and sister to have sex together in their teens. As children my brother and I and some friends played the usual doctors and nurses games that led us to learn about our parts and to see them grow............ All part of the exploration of sex and of the opposite sex..... It happened to me. My brother was 18 and I was 16 3/4. I was in a sort of boyfriend relationship and he wasn't at that time but had been for about 12 months until it ended suddenly. I suppose sexually I was very aware and very awakened as my boyfriends and I always got into touching intimately - petting as we know it.... On an occasion when my brother and I were alone we got to talking about our bodies, boyfriends and girlfriends, our sex lives, how far we had gone, what we had done and how we had done it and it got to the point of "demonstrating" how some actions took place. During this conversation we somehow got closer together and he leaned towards me and touched me. I just reacted and kissed him back and before long we were beginning to touch each other and remove our clothes and the touching got more intimate. He had fingers in places I didnŐt think fingers could go. Eventually we just ended up naked on my bed and I was conscious of him taking out a condom ( I guess he always carried one and I was also on the pill) and putting it on his penis and then it just seemed to happen. It was wrong but felt just right, just comfortable and with my own flesh and blood. His penis was well swollen and I knew that I too was quite swollen, quite wet and aching for him to go into meÉ.. He massaged all round my genitals with such care and gentleness I could feel that I was more than ready for himÉ. He entered me carefully and tenderly, my first time, and we made passionate love for about half an hour with both of us feeling after exhausted but satisfied at the same time. I didn't feel dirty or cheap and I was more than happy that my brother had enjoyed himself with me and ejaculated inside me. It wasn't all one sided either as he brought me to climax and he also showed me how to masturbate myself which I still do now 10 years onÉÉ We enjoyed each others bodies so much that we became a lot lot closer and, until we both got married, we would occasionally make love together but agreed that it would stop for the sake of our partners. It is a secret we know we must keep to ourselvesÉ.. It shouldnŐt have happened, it was certainly wrong and perhaps we didnŐt show the respect to each other that we should have done at the time but for us it just felt right. Had it been unprotected sex I am very sure I would have resisted and refused my brother completely as I didnŐt want a baby then, not until I was ready. My brother is married with 3 children and I have been married 6 years and have two small children. However, I should warn everyone that such a relationship could equally have disastrous effects (it is not for everyone) and should not be done lightly where possibly either brother or sister uses it as weapon because they may feel they have been made to feel bad about it, or feel cheapened, dirty or even that they have broken the law. You have to have respect for each other before and after and the love for each other must remain as family love. It is so easy for something done in lust to become something of hate and families have been torn apart by such happenings.